Now, you all should be aware that I am a MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way). And I have “officially” been a MGTOW since 2013, just after my divorce. However, I realized that MGTOW was a good idea in approximately 2000. But, however, I realized that a divorce is ALWAYS in favor of the women. So I had just sucked it up. And, like I may have said before, while my stroke had essentially ruined my life, to be honest, it would have been far worse if I had burdened by a divorce.
Now, that being said, let us continue.
First off, MGTOW is separate and distinct from MRA/MRM (Mens Right’s Activism/Mens Right’s Movement), even though the MRA/MRM disagree with my assessment. See, the MRM/MRA are essentially in direct opposition to feminism, and are, essentially, traditionalists. However, MGTOW has no such ideals, instead, MGTOW think that they know the true nature of women, and have decided that we choose to limit our interactions with women.
Really, other than the vagina, of what use is a woman to a man? Now, we do not dislike women, we do not hate women, we merely would like to not interact with women on a personal level. Any interactions between a MGTOW and a woman are, at best, superficial, and all business. Nothing personal or anything that can be interpreted as personal. And for me, that is just fine.
MGTOW know that there is a great problem with getting married. The real cost is far to great to pay, and if a married man becomes a MGTOW, the last thing he should do is get divorced. Because he understands the cost of a divorce, he knows that the courts are for the woman and against the man, so the best thing he should do is just suck it up, and hope that his spouse never knows.
Men, generally have more male friends that female friends. And these other men are generally closer friends than any woman. That is because men and women are different, very different. Men are social beings, we generally are not afraid of much, we generally do not lie, and we generally have honor. Women in general, are afraid, they lie, and they have no honor. (PS:The feminists are going to pop a blood vessel in their brain over that last sentence). And that is why men prefer male friends over female friends. Additionally, two man can generally be very close with their friendship, over time. Women, in general, can not really be that close to each other.
A married man could possibly be in a bad situation with respect to friends. I have seen, even in my previous situation, a wife attempting to separate the husbands friends. The male friends that a husband has have a potential problem for the wife, because the male friends can and will notice things that the husband cannot see. And as long as there is a male friend to call him out on the nonsense he is seeing, he can think rationally and protect himself. And that is why a wife will want to separate the husband from his male friends.
I have seen this sort of dysfunctional between a wife and a husband before, and I have seen this in my own previous marriage.
So, the most important thing that a man needs is male friends.
Now, as I have said above, other than a vagina, of what use is a woman to a man? Men are generally cleaner than women. My two ex-wives were slobs. My last ex-wife had always that the clutter and the mess was MY fault. Then we got an apartment with two bathrooms. Then my ex-wife was forced to admit that she was the slob. But, what are the stereotypical “chores” for a wife? In today’s society the woman generally works also, but her “chores” are essentially very easy. That is because men had created the automatic washing machine, the automatic dishwasher, the vacuum cleaner. Hell, men are responsible for making these automatic machines that women use in their “chores”. Men do thing like shovel snow, cut the grass, take out the garbage, fix the roof, and everything that is relatively harder to do.
So-called “woman’s work” is a no-brainer. I myself wash the laundry approximately 1_1/2 hours a month and that includes putting my clothing away. And most of that 1_1/2 hours involves sitting in the laundromat waiting. I cook my own food, hell, the last time I went out to eat was on veterans day, and before that it was on August 2014. Other than that, I have always cooked my own food, men do not really need a woman to cook, since men can generally eat pretty well without the interference of a woman. In addition, how of the best cooks in the world are men when compared to women? And men, would you rather cook for yourself or have a woman cook for you, knowing that she secretly resents that she cooks for you?
And if I don’t want to really clean up my place, it is far cheaper, and less aggravating, to have a cleaning lady come in once or twice a month to give a quick cleaning, rather than have a wife.
Now, I know my that my sample size is bordering on my personal experiences and the friends I have had. But even aside from the above reasons, really, what does a woman offer to a man that is of any worth?